ok.. now i think i have totally messed it all up..
After working with this for a few days, i found that the only way i could get even close to a good first layer was to enter a negative offset.
I re-loaded the firmware (version 1.0.2) and still was unable to get it to work without a negative value.
I uploaded the newest version of firmware (1.0.3), tried to re-calibrate the offset. I tried 4 different times and got 3 different values for the offset (.53, .83 and .32), i have been trying to calibrate in the same spot on the printer each time. The only thing that was different was the spot where i sent the initial G30 P0.
With the offset numbers i found, when i home everything, then move the z axis first, i hear it drag on the bed (so i am still too close).
now, for some reason, when i turn the printer on.. the first thing i do is home everything, what happened before was the Z axis would raise 10, then x would home, y would home, the printer would move to x100, y100 and then z would home.
Now, after upgrading the firmware, when i turn the printer on and home everything, Z homes where it is, then x homes, y homes and z homes again.
This is an issue if the z probe is not over the bed when i turn the printer on.
i tried also to go back to version 1.0.2 to see if the issue corrects, but it does not.
Also, after upgrading the firmware, using the same config file that the printer was running, the first time i tried to home everything, the Z axis started to go up and then everything stopped with an illegal out of bounds error, i changed the x offseet for the probe and the error stopped, i then put it back to where is was (since it was no longer even close to the actual offset), when i changed it back, the error did not come back.
i am completely lost here....
Any thoughts on this would be greatly appreciated. Do i need to replace the RAMPS board since this is somewhat inconsistent? Or do i need to do something different?