I have an update.
I could make the pause with M226 P35 S0 (which is the encoder click)
It is not a big problem, but I set a message with M117 before the M226, it shows for a second then shows just "idle", and, after pressing the encoder it resumes but also enter the menu, which is not a big problem too, but looks like there is no 100% solution.
This should help now.
Also, I still want to give M600 a try if you tell me how to disable its retraction, or, even better, how to set a low retraction, like 2mm, this would be good to avoid oozing.
Thank you very much.