Not really sure what the problem is you describe, but I think it is Z_PROBE_Z_OFFSET_MODE that might be wrong. It depends on if you measure the bed or the top including coating with your sensor. That can cause an error of coating thickness if set wrong. See description below.
There are 2 ways to consider a changing bed coating, which are defined by Z_PROBE_Z_OFFSET_MODE.
Z_PROBE_Z_OFFSET_MODE = 0 means we measure the surface of the bed below any coating. This is e.g.
the case with inductive sensors where we put BuildTak on top. In that case we can set Z_PROBE_Z_OFFSET
to the thickness of BuildTak to compensate. If we later change the coating, we only change Z_PROBE_Z_OFFSET
to new coating thickness.
Z_PROBE_Z_OFFSET_MODE = 1 means we measure the surface of the coating, e.g. because we have a mechanical switch.
In that case we add Z_PROBE_Z_OFFSET for the measured height to compensate for correct distance to bed surface.
In homing to max we reduce z length by Z_PROBE_Z_OFFSET to get a correct height.
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