The server can manage multiple connection at a time. It will even sync changes across open instances.
What wonders me is that you say a pc stays connected while from handy it disconnects. Connection to wifi is done by linux and I see no reason to behave different if a handy is connecting.
Are you using our server image? If so read also troubleshooting wifi on the image download site.
Pi cam lags behind if pi is connected to wifi at least for some while connected over eth0 it will not lag. Why that is so is not clear for the moment.
:3344 uses the server directly while :80 (or omitting) uses nginx which prxies the requests, so it makes a redirection internally.